Although much has been made of President Obama’s meeting with Donald Trump following his victory, the thing that really spoke volumes about his opinion of the president-elect took place afterwards. Departing from longstanding White House tradition, Obama refused to pose with Trump and his wife Melania for a photograph, a courtesy readily extended to him and Michelle Obama when he was first elected in 2008:
“‘The Obamas canceled a photo-op of the current and future first couples outside the south entrance of the White House. In his first visit to the White House after the 2008 election, Mr. Obama and first lady Michelle Obama posed for the cameras alongside President George W. Bush and first lady Laura Bush.'”
Source: The Gateway Pundit
https://talkingpointsmemo.com/livewire/obamas-cancel-photo-op-trumps-ahead-white-house-visit